There is a day in the life of a wife when the husband tries to exercise control over his wife's breath, from the very beginning, as he has been subjected to the syndrome of 'my wife only Mary Hai'. When he starts to think of himself as a prisoner he longs for a dog in the open air. To keep the mind of the husband when the wife starts to do all the talking after a few moments
On New Year's Eve, I was walking out of the mall while shopping, and I noticed the boiling softness near the elevator. I took a closer look. Maybe Manoj was spotted somewhere but my assumption was wrong. She was still with her college classmate Amit today. Nowadays, Mridula is often seen smiling with Amit, sometimes in film, sometimes in shopping malls, sometimes in a restaurant.
This information is not only me, Jayashree and I are not just siblings, we are more connected than sisters. I watched Mridula grow from birth to college. He had voluntarily married Manoj a year earlier. In the early days of marriage, her happiness was immediately apparent. But his friendship with Amit for the last 3-5 months has left me confused not only with Jayashree.
One time, when I questioned his changed behavior, what he told me was natural but he forced me to think. Mridula complained that Manoj no longer loved her. He has no time for his wife. He also loves it as if someone reads a file on a table, signs it and forgets to move it away. The dense kiss she used to drift into, she continues to crave for the same intimate kiss today.
I understood well. Manoj's routine, held in high office, is so entrenched in the office program that he has no time for the householder and wife. Mridula is attracted to Amit for passing the time. Amit, too, is trying his penny for selfishness. It is unknown at all that this attraction of Mridula will not be the cause of his ruin.
This is a talk about the early days of marriage. Often it happens that in the mind of a husband who worships a husband like a deity, a paroque man comes quietly and starts to clap in such a way that he cannot control his mind. It runs in the direction the mind takes.
She forgets that she is running away just behind the mirage in the desert. When the eye opens, everything disappears from the hand. She betrays herself by stumbling over her husband's faith. In this case, proving yourself to be true is like a fire test.
Protection of face mind
Something similar happened with Shweta. The life of her and Vijay was passing very nicely. The chemist's shop was making good money. Suddenly the situation changed and the business of conquest collapsed. Seeing the financial condition of the house worsening, Shweta suggested that she send her husband to Dubai with her brother and start a new business, and also assured that the shop would handle it. Even so, the shop's cash was handled by his friend Himesh.
Victory flew to Dubai. Shweta had been sitting in the shop with Himesh all day. Slowly, Himesh's stubborn, cheerful disposition made him a member of his house. He had the wonderful power to keep the atmosphere happy because of his fearlessness and present-day intelligence. All those qualities were not in her husband's victory. The face is said to be a mirror of the mind.
After returning from Dubai, Vijay, the smile on Shweta's face and the change in his gestures realized that Shweta was showing some interest in Himesh. He changed the direction of the storm in his life by having enough responsibility and orderly communication. Shweta also realized that she was going to make a big mistake.
There will be many examples like this. When someone enters your life after marriage, you break the wall of your faith. Not only is this the distance between relationships, but also the harmony and synergy of the interaction seems to fade. Stress can arise, which sometimes results in divorce.
Why does this happen?
There is a day in the life of a wife when the husband tries to exercise control over his wife's breath, from the very beginning, as he has been subjected to the syndrome of 'my wife only Mary Hai'. When he starts to think of himself as a prisoner he longs for a dog in the open air.
When the wife starts to let go of all her talk to keep her husband in mind, both her husband's enthusiasm and affection begin to increase. He begins to be allergic to everything his wife does. Regardless of the wishes of the wife, he seems to believe in his victory over keeping the wife as a maid.
When a husband has to spend months away from home in relation to his work or his daily routine, more busy than necessary, the wife begins to feel neglected.
Over-drying of the husband toward his wife or disrespecting her in all her affairs, not being interested in anything and not listening to everything.
Some men immediately recognize the changed nature of the wife. But there are also some husbands who do not care about the changing nature of their wives or they never seriously consider the subject. Some are selfish in nature, then how will they misunderstand such behavior of the wife? Some husbands are so ambitious that they use their wives as a gift to reach the top.
Marriage is a bond in which the feelings of love, love and trust are bonded to each other in such a way that the knot does not loosen throughout life. This is not just a bond, just a bridge of trust, whose foundation should be strong enough to not be broken even in adverse circumstances, or say that this is a book that on each chapter, spouses deliberately meditate on each other. Emotions become familiar with happiness, pleasure, and effort to adapt to one another.
All people want to embody the dreams of a happy and married life. They endeavor that this cloud of abandonment, love and trust will never be clouded by mistrust, betrayal or hatred. Nevertheless, if such a situation arises, it is the duty of both spouses to save the walls from the collapse of their house.
Tip for Husband: If your spouse's steps that promise to support you in every adversity sometimes go astray, try to get to the root of why your spouse has suppressed your emotions, rather than crying or questioning them.
Women are by nature emotional. It is not enough to just love your spouse, but also to express love occasionally. Every woman wants her husband to pay enough attention to her. Don't just criticize things like what he is wearing, what he cooks, how he decorates the house, etc. Appreciate, too. If the husband and wife apologize for any reason.
You can also apologize for leaving yourself ego. Your wife will feel good that you respect her feelings. Do not only talk about yourself, but also listen to your wife. Do not forget to greet him on the occasion of birthday, etc.
Husbands and wives should keep in mind that it is only human nature that they find happiness in the same things, which are beyond their reach, by underscoring the importance of the things received.
Even spouses are no exception. As soon as the attraction to someone is awakened, one has to patiently think that there is this incomplete information, or for some other reason, the momentum of the emotions. Try to accommodate this upbringing before coming to a halt and devouring your household, otherwise there will be nothing but a lifetime of remorse.
Suggestion for a wife: There is nothing wrong with being impressed by one's qualities, but it is wrong to bring wrong thoughts in one's mind. You need to appreciate the qualities of other men, but it is not appropriate to be tempted by a man because of certain qualities.
In such a situation you should control your emotions so that you do not go in the wrong direction. You can take your spouse to the right path by controlling these emotions with a conscious conscience of conscience.
- Snowy
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