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Whenever my wife and I want to have a physical relationship, she starts crying in pain. The problem has increased so much that we can no longer have sex even if we want to.

Question: Whenever my wife and I want to have a physical relationship, she starts crying in pain. The problem has increased so much that we can no longer have sex even if we want to. What could be the reason for this? Show a solution that brings joy back to our marriage.
- One Man: (Surat)

Answer: This problem is due to any bias in your wife's mind or the woman may be associated with certain disorders of the body. In both cases, the physical union becomes painful and the marital life dissipates. This problem is called dyspareunia.

Your SMS does not know when the problem is and how long you have been in a marriage bond.

Many neonatal couples have a psychological origin of dyspareunia. Since being a virgin, it is only natural for a woman to have sexual intercourse with sexual matters, some kind of apprehension, or some kind of doubt or prejudice when it comes to marriage.

Most families in Indian society do not have a healthy attitude towards sex. From an early age, it has a profound effect on the dull minds of many young women. They are so obsessed with sex that it becomes difficult for them to be united in marriage. Many women have the dormant mind of cohabiting men. Some women's minds are upset with the prejudice that first mating is painful.

These heartache and wrong thoughts make a woman unable to meet first. The pelvic tissue shrinks just after the touch is felt, so that the pelvis is narrow and there is no intercourse. This problem is called vaginismus.

This sexual disturbance of a woman can also be caused by the unskilled sexual practices of a man in the early days of marriage. If the first mating is more painful then the thought of it is further improved but the body and mind are removed from it.

Married women still have this mental problem after a difficult childbirth. Her mind wants to avoid mating to understand the cause of intercourse, the pain of maternity. Once this problem arises it becomes more like a cyclone. When a spouse wants to have sex, the woman begins to suffer. On the other hand, a man's mind is also engulfed in doubts. Her patience diminishes and dissatisfaction and separation projections increase.

In some couples, dyspareunia is also caused by a particular physical problem. If a woman has a vaginal swelling, a fleshy knuckle (urethra) on the urethra door, the bertholin gland on the vagina becomes inflamed, fissures on the anus, or painful irritation in the vagina after an operation or delivery. Is.

In this way, the swelling of the border of the breached hymen, the intact hymen of the vagina by birth or disease, can also be disrupted and the physical happiness of the married life can be disrupted.

Uterine swelling (pelvicitis), pelvic inflammation, retroversion, ovarian and ovarian duct or rectum or endometriosis do not directly interfere with intercourse, but cause internal pain at intercourse. This is called collagen dyspareunia.

When there is dyspareunia, the spouse should consult a doctor without hesitation. The gynecologist can examine the victim from within and find out the root cause of the problem.

Question: I am a 4 year old girl. A few days ago my boyfriend kissed me in solitude. Later I found out that he was flirting with other girls before me. Since then, I have been so afraid that kissing her somewhere will not go to AIDS. I recently read that AIDS viruses may be hidden in the saliva as well. Is this true? How is the AIDS virus spread?
- A young woman (Vadodara)

Answer: It is true that if a person is HIV positive, then HIV / AIDS-causing HIV virus can be found in his saliva. But this condition is only found in infectious people. Even among those who had the virus in the saliva, the virus was much lower in comparison to the natural secretions of blood and sexual organs. In addition, the mucus also contains a natural antibacterial substance, which has caused the mucus infection to be negligible.

But if one kisses so loudly that the opposite person's lips are cut off or there is a wound in the kisser's mouth, then the HIV virus through the blood flowing from the wound can go into the other's body during the kiss.

Leaving aside these conditions, there is no fear of spreading HIV through saliva, tears and sweat.

HIV can spread in many ways. Taking unclean blood can lead to HIV infection by having a physical relationship or oral sex with an HIV positive person, contacting genital mutilation and playing needles infected with unclean blood. Using other needles and syringes for intoxication can also cause disease.

An HIV positive woman can transmit the disease to her baby during pregnancy and even after birth. Contagious blood transfusions can also be infected by doctors, nurses, and medical colleagues treating HIV-positive patients.

Question: I am a 3 year old woman. I have had 4 tumors develop in my head for the past 6 years. I have not cured any of it yet. I have no problem with it but it does make me look bad. Please give proper advice.
- A woman (Porbandar)

Answer: The nodules on your head can happen for a number of reasons. It originates with the cyst of the skin's gastric glands. It can also be caused by the accumulation of fat that is attached, called lipoma. It is also possible that it was caused by cysticercosis, the larva of the tapeworm.

This is why you should meet a surgeon. Only after doing a physical examination will they know where the tumor was caused. If there is cystic cirrhosis, taking albendazole medication only will dissolve it. But if there is a sebaceous cyst or lipoma, you can remove it with a small operation.

Question: I am a 4 year old girl. 6 months ago I had jaundice and after a blood test I found out that this jaundice was caused by hepatitis-B. My health is all right now, but when I get a hepatitis-B blood test again with the doctor's advice, I come back positive. I'm so scared Tell me what should I do?
- A girl (Mehsana)

Answer: In 1% of hepatitis-B patients, the body's immune system conquers hepatitis-B bacteria within 6 months. In this case, the hepatitis-B blood test becomes negative. Even in 5% of patients, the body does not get germs on germs and the bacteria continue to attack the liver. It can have a bad effect on the liver. As a result, cirrhosis can occur in the liver after a few years and can even cause more serious problems, such as cancer, in some 3 percent of patients.

It is advisable to have a hepatitis-B blood test again after 6 months. Even if the test comes out positive. If there is only 1% chance that you should contact a hepatologist immediately and get a cure. In this case alpha interferon medication may be more useful to you. This drug has the power to relieve hepatitis-B bacterial infections.

Question: The upper part of my right wrist was burned 3 years ago. The wound has healed, but now the skin of this part looks thicker and worse. Occasionally itching may occur. What could be the reason for this? Can Hand Skin Be Compared to Plastic Surgery?
- A Girl (Ahmedabad)

A: The skin of the burned part is thick and bad looking is associated with excessive growth of dermal tissue during wound healing. This condition is caused by a deterioration in the body's reproductive process and is called a post-burn hypertrophic score. No one controls it, though plastic surgeons use special types of pressure bandages to suppress it. It seems you were unfamiliar with this aspect of the treatment and did not use pressure bandages.

However, it is still possible to improve this hypertrophic score. This is why you should meet a talented plastic surgeon. By removing the skin of the stained area, the plastic surgeon can apply a new piece of skin to that part. This will remove the deformity of the skin, even though the normal scar will remain.