Couples Fight: Love Can Increase, Spread Conflict ...

I'm arguing or arguing with you. You should not worry, but when arguing stops, I have nothing left to argue. A study by the University of Minnesota's Family-Welfare Department at 7th found that 1 percent of married couples in India believe that if there is a dispute more than once a week, the channel of communication between them continues, without which they are left alone. They feel that no one is listening.

In fact, couples often have conflicts between couples, but no matter what their causes, they have the same goal: to dominate each other, to listen to each other's mistakes, or to do other things like money, social media, Includes screen files, smartphones, etc. However, all these fights - disputes and disputes do not mean separation, family - separation etc. ..... There are some such fights here.

(3) Money

Do you know what you are doing to yourself?

It is quite common for partners to think differently about money. Some people, if financially conservative, consider living a lifestyle in the name of their savings.

'My husband always and always says you know what you are doing with your money. Says Sheila Sharma, 7, who runs a lifestyle blog. "They are always thinking in terms of investment and savings. Every month their spending lists are ready and I become more relaxed and I rarely question where all this money goes. Sheila said for her husband Surjit, who is 4 years old and works in sales and marketing at MNC.

4-year-old Lovleen Kaur, who has been dating Aditya Mehra for the past four years. The two are the most conservative financially. I tend to favor savings more than I do, so I've ended up quarreling with them for money. Thus, I have cut down on spending big and just stopped doing so.

(3) Life Style

'I won't be sitting in your Mercedes'

The bird flies even though its wing flies at the same speed, in the opposite direction. It is only from this that many couples are well connected with each other in the couple that make up the career and lifestyle choices. One of these partners is more conservative and the other partner is more demonstrative of power and ambitious.

I am hyperactive, but Vishal is inactive. Urmila Sharma (1) is the Vice-President of Digital Agency while her husband of 6 years Vishal Shah is a screenwriter.

I like to be ambitious. Recently, I have been constantly arguing about his book writing hobby. I struggled with his work and he quarreled with me about my workaholism habits.

3-year-old Deepa is also a writer and her 3-year-old husband Karan is a tech-professional. And lives in Bengaluru. 'Karan was living with his family when he said that my family did not want anything more. Now when I start earning more, it always has big plans like buying a big house. He keeps telling me occasionally that he wants to buy a Mercedes and that I have a quarrel with him. I'm not a big expensive guy and I like the low-key lifestyle so our fight stops by and gets on my cheesesteak and shout. I'm not going to sit in your Mercedes. ' Says Deepa.

(2) Screen Fight

OTT platform and rampant rage

The city's Millennium Home Entertainment experience means watching a TV show or watching a movie on one and a half thousand apps and streaming services. A study in Study 3 found that users spend an average of 5 minutes behind it. This proves that they spend almost twice as much time on DTS television viewers.

If it comes to sharing this screen, spend two to five minutes in fights. It says that Sandeep. 'Winner is the one whose day went the worst.

Game designer Razwan Hussain (1) and mantle health professional Ishita Khetia (1) say, "Whenever it comes to film or TV series, the same test is not the same for both of us. 'Ishita considers me hypocritical because she decides based on the content I like. Any film is half done, I never recommend it. He knows the movie is bad, but I'm going to win that round, "he says. While watching a movie or TV show that Razwan likes and sitting down with the two, Ishita recommends watching the previous pending shows.

Today you can watch streaming services on multiple platforms, from smart TVs to handheld phones.

We also struggle with device-logging, he says. Suvarna, who works as a business development manager for a media company, and her husband Afzal are film makers.

(3) Smart Phones

The magical machine of trouble

The world gets satisfied with the screen, whether smart or other. Acknowledge that professional, personal and politics are all on our phones, even if we are not asleep. I don't usually say anything on Instagram that it's work, "says Aditya. "I'm always ready to fight with him," says Lovlin. It is always available on Instagram. Some of our life partners are sharing it and discussing it with others and making comments on their posts. '

'Karan's phone is always on it. He is playing video games on it or even chatting with someone. ' It says Deepa. He also spends more time on the phone, which is one of the reasons that when the nationwide protest movement against CAA started, Rizwan became more active on it and the phone remained in his hand. Most of his time was spent planning and organizing. I had a lot of fight with him on this side of him, Ishita said.

(3) Boring section

'Share the load

This is actually a very difficult dispute in which your husband is involved, because even when a long trip is involved with the dispute, it becomes difficult, ”says Sheila.

I can't help it, but can I show it the way? It was easier for us when I was cooking and doing everything after Karan, like cleaning a pot, etc…, ”he says.

..... But the day we decided to exchange our daily chores, we were tied up with fights. She enjoyed cooking and I enjoyed her dish, but when I was cleaning the kitchen we would get confused. '

'Afzal used to clean my plate with water only. When we were not doing that well, there were conflicts, quarrels between us, 'however, the Afzal says, I like to work my way. But he didn't like it. And then there were fights between us. After this I stopped working at home.

(2) PDA

(Showing love in public)

On Instagram I wanted to grab her hand

'Since I started dating him, I started following Aditya on Instagram,' says Lovelin. 'He used to post letters and poems expressing his openness to me. Who were on love, romance and girls. His life was very public. He closed it after expressing his open mind in the first place. I quarreled with him because he was writing poetry on me and Instagram was for me.

Deepa's problem was that he was attracted to her in public. It was more in our time than others. 'Karan was very open in expressing his attraction to the public but I was not. His family was from Mangalore and he was there on holiday. He wanted to hold my hand and kiss me right across the street, and then we had a split. Mangalore city has a history of attacks on twins, irrespective of their type. Urmila and Vishal also have a controversy over public showing love (PDA).

Thus, in today's couples there is a dispute about anything, it will happen in the future and in the past. This is a part of life, which can increase love or even disperse.