No one expects it, it will surely fall in love

When a person is confused by the questions raised by himself, this is what happens! Otherwise you have never been such a chain smoker. Despite the eighth cigarette burning, the smiling face on your beautifully proud Smart Jawan's face could not be removed. Otherwise, you only drink three or four cigarettes a day in the style of Shoukia, and Lipsa does not like the smell of cigarettes.

"I like your heroic cigarette, but I don't like the smell of cigarettes. You won't stay with me forever, so you should quit smoking after marriage! ”

"Who is going to hand over this cigarette even after getting a cigarette that looks like a red smoke without burning like yours?"

... Lipsa is your own favorite idea, and you are Lipsa's.

At a seminar organized by a company in which you are a junior public relations officer, you went to the hotel 'Lovely' and wore a long curly julphon, a slim sleeveless smile, sitting on the reception counter, and looking at you. You have your thoughts, and you've been told, 'Wow! Do you understand why the name of this hotel is 'Lovely'? Im thinking Balsara! '

Lipsa blush with a pinkish pink hug smiling as she spoke "The Handsome!", And you realize that the mixture of heroes you believe in is smiling behind the counter in a very curious tone, and Lipson looks at you and men in general. The dream guy is inviting him to say "Welcome my Valentine! ..."

Your daddy may not like your 'lovemarage' proposal with Lipsa, but 'everyone should have the right to be happy or hurt themselves in the matter of marriage.' Believing your daddy didn't object to your 'love'. So Lipsa's mom and daddy happily accepted the 'dowry found idol'.

Imagine your office hours were eight to four in the morning, and Lipsa's part-time 'receptionist' job was from six to nine in the evening. So before your love-cum-arranged marriage, you could both meet for hours in the evening - two hours each day, and that 'hour' would dissolve like an ice-cube in the eyes jam.

And married to Lipsa. Just two months after a honeymoon filled with madhoshi, the idea of ​​landing your 'Love-Marriage' cafe, which has bound you today with a restless chain of chain-smoking. Fourteenth February 'Valentine's Day', the day you love love with your Valentine, has now become a 'Volcano Day' for you.

The receptionist's job was that Lipsa quit soon after the wedding, but couldn't remember the male friendship that had been hanging around her smiling beautifully.

You have many complaints against Lipsa, but you do not think you can blame anyone, or you can cry at your daddy, who lives three hundred kilometers away. And friends are awakened by your 'happiness' (!) Just by looking at your 'beautiful' pair!

You are a sleepy, sleepy, and nocturnal person who can handle the chores of the house, sleeping lazily and sleeping late. As much as it stays in its decor, and wastes time, even a fourth of the chavat would have been kept for your home, so your house would not have been as chaotic as a hotel passenger's room. When you come home tired from work, Lipsa gets a key when you are not home, and when it arrives you have sleeveless arms

Sometimes it felt like a jaundice strand, rolling in your eyes like a javelin spear. You and Lipsa are living a life without 'marriage-love' amidst brawl, strife and constant tension after love-marriage. You constantly feel that you have made the mistake of marrying Lipsa, and that there is only one way to correct the mistake - divorces!

... Even today you have 'come home from office, but a woman - Lipsa from the meeting of the institution has not returned home - even when you are burning this eighth cigarette after coming home ...'

Though, you may be shocked to find out that Lipsa has no less complaints against you! That is why he has written in a letter to his older sister who is abroad,

'Big Bean! I have made a huge mistake in refusing to listen to your choice of a doctor doctor from abroad. The husband whom I consider to be a 'hero' and 'love-marriage' as a husband is very 'zero'. He understands that the housekeeper is a carer, not my wife. ' I have to drive her to flirt with her female friends, but if I talk to someone lightly or wear a fashionable - sleeveless, she gets irritated. As if I owned a piece of property. It could come from his meetings at any time, but if I was a little late coming from outside, I would have to bear the wrath of the "loaf" and "irresponsible"! Why would love dissolve so soon after marriage in love-marriage?

So the idea that Lipsa like you constantly ponders the question, why did you think that the mountain is as irresistible as the cracks in the dream palace of love between you both? You both think each other is responsible for the cracks, but let me tell you that if the situation has arisen, neither of you has any say in the situation ??

Wondering what to think? But this is true. You have not met Lipsa once, despite having met several times before the marriage. Then you would say that in preparation for meeting each other for twenty-three hours, spend hours in the rhythm, who would meet each other in the coffee house for hours - Lipsa?

Imagine explaining! When you and Lipsa were meeting for hours before the wedding, preparing for the best of the twenty-three hours a day, the two of you formed each other's expected values ​​based on the 'presentation', which was not real but Lipsa's past. Those idols used to meet each other, not both of you! Now that the idol has been with you for twenty-four hours, the only problem you have caused is the fact that the stone was smashed to the ground, and that this is not the person that I wanted. Psychological relationships are always a struggle. Because a person is never just the perfect sculpture of our expectations. It is also inextricably linked to its shortcomings.

That is, to love a person means to accept it as such, to accept it in all its aspects and to love it wholeheartedly. And only then will you know - Lipsa, without hatred, jealousy or anger, without the desire to fall in love with what the opposite person thinks or does, shows love without condemnation or comparison! The realization of such 'a-room' love will transform both of you into the redness of the problem of love - Kalima-Lipsa, and every single 'Volcano-day' of your present will become 'Valentine's Day'.

(Title sensation: Rajesh Brahmabhatt - Vadodara)