That talik things are important in life. One of these responsibilities! Thus the need for this responsibility is a social order. But where did that system come from in the society? We only recognize it as a social process. But we have never realized that the understanding and inspiration of that system came from nature. That is why we have understood the social process. But man is born on the condition of his own responsibility. Nature builds your body.
Give the nose for the breathing process to live. Giving ears to listen. Tongues to speak and teeth to chew, now creatures in your way, saying that even nature raises its hands. If nature had taken responsibility for your livelihood even after giving birth, all would be the same. No one would be poor or rich. Nature gave you life, but you put the responsibility of shaping life on your head, so you shaped the life as you like it! In this way, nature gave an understanding of who should take responsibility for what work and for how long!
There is also a limit of responsibility. Somewhere a man should be freed from responsibility. Carrying responsibilities till death is an atrocity on oneself. And also called horrible manners! By keeping all the responsibilities to yourself, you are stifling the development of the people around you! Even the one who inspires responsibility is not ready to accept responsibility until you die. This natural system came into the society and from the society it becomes familial. One person in the family has to take responsibility. But what is the limit of that responsibility?
The responsibility of the family is mostly on the head of the father and it is his duty to discharge the responsibility. But there should also be an understanding of how, how much and for how long that duty is or should be. To raise children with upbringing, the school is taught in college. The formation takes place in the yard under the supervision of the parents. Parents have to fulfill any responsibility other than empathy towards their children after giving them all the responsibilities of educating them after upbringing and after teaching them till marriage. After marrying the son who has come so far with the finger of the father, the father has no right to walk with the finger!
As this rule applies to both parties, both parents and children have to be firm! A father who is freed from responsibility towards his children cannot be freed from feelings towards his son even after being freed from responsibility! But the mood of the emotion has to be changed, otherwise the emotion becomes emotional instead of helping the child who chooses to be harmful instead of helping. That feeling stunts the son's development. No one can grow small plants in the shade of a big tree, even after marriage, the development of a son who keeps his father's finger can not grow.
If the young son wants to move forward by accepting his responsibility, you should not insist that he does as you understand and as you say, you should also avoid getting involved in his work. He too should be allowed to do so. If we get together, there should be a lot of social talk. Inquiries about its business should be avoided if it is causing damage! Its loss will be consumed. Parents can never teach the loss through learning.
Parents can be helpful once in a while in a traumatic event. Repeated help is also detrimental to the son. Because repeated financial support from parents can make them feel uncomfortable with their responsibilities. He cannot handle his responsibilities honestly if he expects to get them from his father if necessary. If I don't help, the age-old spirit of who will do it is not very much consumed now.
There is a big difference between a young man working with the help of a father and a son working without the help of a father. The one who seeks the help of the Father remains forever. A man who works without the help of his father becomes self-reliant and can make independent decisions for himself. You may have noticed that children whose father died in infancy are very young. They have to get young at an early age. You have to accept responsibility at an early age and also be honest about the responsibility!
Oh my god All your parties are heavy on you,
If it weren't for me, your world would be heavy on you!
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