A good price is only beneficial to oneself..good nature is beneficial to the family ..

Imagine we have two great fun pots. One is made of pure gold and has beautiful carvings on it. While the other is very plain and made of clay. If we are told to make a choice, then naturally we choose a pot of gold. Because prosperity and beauty are in the pot.

But then it becomes clear that the choice is not to carry a gift, just to drink enough water on the scorching hot days. So what So our choice will change soon. We will choose the clay pot. Because we know that the 'nature' of cooling water is that of a clay pot, not a golden pot ... How special nature is more important than prosperity and beauty can be understood from the above consideration. That is why we will show today, the fourth final motto of our contemplation of the four sutras based on the word 'bhav', that 'nature should be nice.'

It is unfortunate that a very large class today does not take seriously the preference for 'temperament' in the selection criteria. One of the dire consequences of this is that in the early years of the journey of coexistence, some people reach the abyss of 'divorce' where their relationship commits suicide. The irony is that many of these young men and women, at the beginning of cohabitation, jokingly claim, 'We have a love marriage.' He doesn't even know when love has come out of this and hatred has entered! The main reason why it is thrown into the valley of 'divorce' through conflict is because of the tendency to ignore 'nature' by giving priority to prosperity-beauty. In this context, the message of a Sanskrit proverb is especially worth remembering: -

Examiners Yatnen, temperament Netre marks:.

Atitya hi gunan sarvan, svabhavo murdhni vartate ..

The implication is that if there is one thing that needs to be judged the most, it is nature, not other things. Because all other things aside, nature creates the most advanced effects. We ourselves are experiencing this in practice that a person's generosity-cleverness is sidelined on occasion and bitter-sharp-nature is remembered?

There are so many types it's hard to say. But we will briefly consider four features here.

(1) Sensitivity in thoughts: The thinking style of a good natured person should be such that empathy towards the people around him is overflowing. He should not be selfish and think only of his own benefit. Where there is only self-interest, everything from deceit to friction is quickly overshadowed. When it comes to sensitivity, care is taken not to harm others, but to help others. Want to know how a sensitive person takes care not to hurt others? So read this cool fact:

One rupee went wrong at the time of accounting in the office of 'Akhand Anand' magazine run by Bhikkhu Akhandanand, who spreads cultural literature from house to house at cheap rates. This is the time when a family of five can survive for a week with one rupee. An employee said, "Give me the money so that the money-laden organization is not harmed." I will beat anyone in the market. "

Swamiji was present at that time and he decided, "Bury this wrong rupee in the ground. It's not about beating anyone. "But why? This will hurt our organization. "Akhandanandji gave a funny answer," Most likely it will happen that educated-smart people will not know that this rupee is wrong. So the poor-uneducated man is more likely to go. It has to bear the brunt of poverty. It is better for the organization to bear the brunt of this loss. "Swamiji further added," Our organization is a sacrament giver. If we circulate fake rupee in the market, it means that we circulate false rupee in the market. That doesn't happen to us. "

How a person of sensitive nature takes care not to harm others is reflected in this sacramental meditation of Swamiji.

(3) Sweetness in speech: Suppose a person's haiyu-thinking world is sensitive but there is no restraint limit in speaking? So even her sentimentality does not allow an atmosphere of joy and laughter in the family. Because his words are like arrows, his speech is like an ax. Diwali is almost non-existent in the house of a person who has a two-pronged voice and Holi is always there. Therefore, another characteristic of a good-natured nature is the sweetness of speech. To understand how important speech becomes a factor in a relationship, let us quote these wonderful Hindi verses that say, So Dilse utar jaate hai. '

(2) Help in behavior: The third characteristic of good nature is supportive attitude. If the family members show an attitude of helping each other in their work and problems, then if the house is not prosperous, then there can be a glimpse of heavenly bliss.

The greater the sensitivity at the level of thoughts, the greater the support at the level of behavior. Want to know what kind of good deeds this supportive person motivates to do? So read this episode of Gurjareshwar Emperor Siddharraj Jayasinghe:

One fine evening he was coming towards his palace. At one of the best houses he saw eighty lamps being lit. Asking the servant, he said: "It is customary in our town to light as many lamps as the nobleman has wealth of lakhs and the crocodile to hoist the flag on his palace."

The king asked two questions to test. One is what do you use the property for? ' And the second is that 'if you become a millionaire and fly a flag instead of having to light so many lamps every evening, will the effort be less?' Shrestha replied, "I am interested in charity, so the use of wealth is special. My virtue is that wealth does not increase or decrease from eighty lakhs. I live by the policy and I am satisfied with what I have. "

Satisfied, the emperor, at the height of his support, gave sixteen lakh gold coins from the treasury and freed Shrestha from the spree of lighting eighty-four lamps daily! Needless to say, the popularity of such support automatically increases.

(3) Peace in inequality: The fourth characteristic of good nature. Maintaining peace of mind even in times of crisis. Some people look like they have an 'ice factory' in their brain.

In any case, it does not lose control of the brain. Linking this peace to education, one thinker has made a nice statement that, 'Readiness to handle the worst situation and listen to the Sami person is called true education. Let us assimilate this education as the fourth characteristic of nature and say to ourselves, 'Life is good if nature is good.