Confusion.

Question: I am a 19 year old girl and live with my widowed mother. I used to be in good health, but for the last few years I have been suffering from asthma. I believe he has had this disease for two years before his marriage, but he did not get proper treatment for it, as a result of which I also got this disease. When this problem increases in winter, I get very angry with my mother. I don't think I can live a normal life anymore. I'm afraid my husband won't leave me after marriage! Is there no cure for this disease? It often happens that I commit suicide.

Ek Kanya (Rajkot)

* It is very wrong to think that your mother did not cure asthma so you also got the disease. It is not at all reasonable for you to believe that you are out of breath. On the contrary, you should thank him for being a widow at a young age, thinking that he did not marry anyone else and raised you well.

It is true that no definitive cure for asthma has yet been found, but it can be controlled with timely medication and caution.

It is not right to think negatively about one's husband right now, thinking about what he will do after marriage. Concealment often leads to problems. Asthma is a common disease, which can happen to any person at any time. It is also not a disease from which a person cannot lead a normal life.

Suicide is not the solution to all problems. Develop good qualities in yourself so that everyone will appreciate you. Doing so will give you confidence.

Question: How long is intercourse safe during pregnancy? How often can intercourse be done after delivery?

A woman (Jamnagar)

* There is usually no special rocktalk during intercourse during pregnancy. As the fetus develops, keep changing the way you mate so that the baby is not stressed. However, women who have had frequent miscarriages before are advised to avoid not only sexual intercourse but also complacency, as arousal can lead to miscarriage. Some couples enjoy sex as much as before until the ninth month. If pain or bleeding sometimes occurs, a doctor's advice must be sought, but this is very rare.

Physical happiness can be enjoyed again after three weeks if normal delivery has taken place. If the delivery is by caesarean section, do not have intercourse until the stitches have healed properly and there is no discharge from the vagina and uterus.

Question: I am a 6 year old bachelor. Working in a factory here I believe in homosexuality. I see an older man as soon as my penis gets absolutely aroused. Looking at any woman does not arouse gender at all. Will my life go on like this?

* You are attracted to men only by looking at them, which means that homosexual attraction plays an important role in you. A lot of true homosexual attraction is innate. There is nothing wrong with you. Besides, nothing is too good or too bad. The boss has created you in such a way that if there is attraction or excitement in you, it comes only by looking at the man, not by looking at the woman. This is not a disease so there is no need for treatment. In short, it is better for a homosexual person to satisfy himself with a homosexual relationship than to ruin the life of both by marrying another heterosexual person and it is more beneficial for building a healthy society.

Question: I want to know what is the right way to keep the senses in underwear? Should it be placed upwards towards the sky or below the ground?

A young man (Petlad)

* In many people, the left testicle is lower and the right testicle is closer to the body. That is why it is more natural to place the senses above the left testicle, as it is easier to 'park' there. As a result it is a much easier, more convenient and comfortable position. It doesn't matter what direction a person takes his senses. There is no further advantage or disadvantage. Often the penis is already placed on the left side so when a man's senses are aroused it is slightly tilted to the left. A little too much curvature of the senses does not cause any discomfort in the vagina.