A growing percentage of women are engaged in extramarital affairs through dating apps

There was a time when men were in the forefront in building extramarital affairs. Women thought a hundred times before talking to a man. But now times have changed. Women do not hesitate to talk to anyone except the men in the family. Of course, they do not do this openly. But this is being seen on a large scale in metros. In addition, they are getting the support of extramarital dating apps.

Of course, on such apps, women get the satisfaction of getting something by just having interesting conversations without having a direct relationship with men. Managers of such apps say that at one stage, men were more involved in extramarital affairs apps. But now that 80 per cent of them are women, it is clear that infidelity in married life is no longer just a monopoly of men.

Women who have been silently signing their husbands' infidelity for many years now seem to be responding to them in their own language. Years ago the Manunians raised their voices for economic security and social acceptance. And now that they are getting higher education, have become financially viable and are proud to be called male counterparts, at one stage they have no hesitation in implementing anything that even stunned them. Of course, despite their extramarital affairs, they do not allow their family life to suffer. In rare cases do they cross this threshold. They form friendships with men who, despite claiming to be happy in their married life, come forward to form an extramarital affair just for the sake of innovation or extra pleasure. And Pamela of Bangalore, Mumbai and Kolkata are leading the way in building such relationships.

However, in the Corona period, when it was their turn to live in a compulsory house, they did not get a chance to have direct relations with men. But they are finding satisfaction in building relationships with other men or gay friends through an online dating app. Kamya, 8, of Bangalore, is the mother of a four-year-old son. When it was his turn to work from home, he took a subscription to a well-known app. Now he enjoys lesbian chats with other women on this app. He says I fell in love with a young lady after I joined this app. In this type of app you can make friends with people of any gender. So my love affair with a manu on this app is going on. I know I am being unfaithful to my husband. But I enjoy it.

While living in Delhi, Vibhavari connected with another dating app. He says it has been 10 years since my marriage. And I was fed up with living a monotonous life for a decade. I wanted to do something that would not hurt anyone, but I still enjoy it. Since I joined this dating app, many men have shown their willingness to support me. Following their response I feel like I am beautiful and powerful.

On another popular dating app, women are routinely encouraged to have sex with men. The administrators of this app believe that in this way they make women feel like their male counterparts. However they also say that most women do not like to be blindfolded. Only after checking the details do they decide who to go with and where to hang out, and they don't hesitate to blacklist a profile if they find it inappropriate.

Managers of various dating apps believe that whether couples are in love or their marriages are arranged by their families, it does not mean infidelity. Even in a live-in relationship, there is nothing new about a man or a woman having a relationship with another partner. In such a situation, the betrayed person is faced with the question of whether he should continue the relationship. Should a Sami answer in his own language? And man is only subject to error. In fact, making a mistake is proof of being human.

There is nothing right or wrong in it. And while this is gaining acceptance in the metros, there are open discussions about it. However, the fact remains that this is not taken lightly in India. They further say that most of the women who join dating apps are highly educated, well-rounded and married. But it has often been observed that their dignity is not respected in the family. Rather, they are talked about out of jealousy. Disappointed in such a situation, they look for a partner on the dating app who appreciates them, gives them peace of mind. They don't always have to have sex. They are satisfied only with the sweet talk of the other man. For them, this indirect thrill is enough.

- Straightness