He does not remember when he gets happiness from God, but when he is a little sad, why does man get upset?

- Guftego - Dr. Chandrakant Mehta

- Man does not like happiness as much as 'particle', he struggles for happiness as much as 'mound'. That is why when a hundred grams of pain comes, it is shaken. The destiny of the rose is inscribed with both fragrance and thorns. But the roses enjoy the fragrance

* He does not remember when he gets happiness from God, but when he is a little sad, why does man get upset?

* Arjanbhai K. Sodha Parmar, GIDC No: 1 Opposite Madhavkanta, At. Shihor, - Gundara (Saurashtra)

In Hikat, life as a human being is a 'pilgrimage' to reach God, a believer who is not afraid of the pains of life. The pilgrim does not have to think about the hardships or pains or inconveniences that come during the journey, his goal is only to see his own adorable deity, such is the view of man towards life. The sum of tears and laughter is the name of life.

Assuming that life is a game, the cards that are found to be played should be played skillfully. No bet can guarantee 100% victory and defeat will not last forever. That is why you should not play the game with the attitude that you will always win. You are not a card picker or distributor. The job of the card distributor is just to share. According to the scriptures, man is rewarded according to his pre-existing deeds. We are bound to try. The prejudice that the expected fruit must be obtained is ignorance. If we stop believing that everything is dependent on fate or God, we will reach nowhere. The Mahabharata shows the relationship between Purushartha and Bhagya and says that Purushartha is a field and Bhagya is a seed. Food is produced by the combination of farm and seed. If we become agitated with a negative attitude towards suffering, then the power to fight against suffering will be lost! Don't go to God as a plaintiff, go as a refugee. If you keep depositing the wealth of virtue by making God a bank, one day you will get the right to withdraw a large amount. God's bank never goes into liquidation! Lord Krishna says that I am concerned about the well-being of the one who meditates on me with devotion and worships me. When a man has a relationship of doubt instead of faith in God, he becomes confused. If you worship for the fulfillment of work and name, God will say that I will not intervene. You will have to enjoy the fruits of your deeds. Only the deeds dedicated to me reach me.

When happiness comes, a person should adopt the attitude of a released prisoner instead of being overwhelmed. The prisoner is happy to receive the release order and enjoys meeting his relatives, but he cannot forget the pain he suffered in prison. Just as a man has the privilege of being human and has the opportunity to live independently, he must remember the joy he suffered at birth. Without forgetting the memory of hardships.

Happiness is also the result of God's grace, not just the result of my efforts, the sattvic spirit gives peace to the heart of man. Happiness is not an art, but digesting the truth is the true art. Happiness is not a certificate of being eternal but a self-accepted agreement to be virtuous and holy. The man who accepts the promise of living as a Jaganniyanta, not of the world, will be ego-free and unattached even in happiness. Happiness means that one's life should be truthful, which means that one should cultivate great virtues like truthfulness, justice, self-control, modesty, forgiveness, humility, tolerance, envy, altruism, altruism, compassion and non-violence. It should be remembered that happiness is a gift from God.

Man should have the instinct to be content with as much happiness as he can get instead of a hungry animal. When man finds happiness, he forgets to remember God, the giver of happiness, in the pursuit of ultimate happiness, wealth and material desires. When that sorrow comes, he becomes frightened and goes to the temple for relief from God, because he does not have self-confidence. Sorrow awakens man, happiness awakens man. Life is a tool to become an advanced man, a thing that man should remember even when he is happy. Kabir says:

"Dukh mein sumiran sub karai,

Sukh mein kare na koi,

If I meditate on happiness

So where is the sorrow? "

Happiness lies in limiting desires and not in expanding them. It is a sign of self-satisfaction to consider the happiness obtained as 'more' instead of 'less'.

When you are happy, grief peeks out of the window of your life to get an idea of ​​why you are behaving in grief. The belief that God's blessings will be hidden somewhere in what has happened to man, which he considers to be his own misfortune, creates faith in God and welcomes God's creation by dedicating himself to God. Man knows how to cry against sorrow but if he could smile against sorrow, this creation would become a paradise. Assuming that grief is not a time to fade away but a moment to become brighter, stay calm from the inside out and your confusion will automatically go away. Seeing a poor and ragged man, a man asked, "You look sad, can you give me the address of sadness?" The poor man said: 'I am happy. Ask the address of sorrow to a timid man who is saddened by the mind. 'Sadness is not a stick beaten by God but a test to awaken humanity. Only true devotion can create true devotion. The fact that suffering is not destructive but evolutionary has been proved by the lives of many saints and great men. There is no sorrow like raga and no happiness like renunciation. Man does not like happiness as much as 'particle', he struggles for happiness as much as 'mound'. That is why a hundred grams are shaken when sorrow comes. The destiny of the rose is inscribed with both fragrance and thorns. Rose enjoys the fragrance of fragrance instead of complaining of thorns.