Confusion.

- We have been married for a year, but I am still deprived of sexual happiness, because whenever the husband is ready for sex, ...

My wedding is coming up soon. My future husband believes that the veil of virginity is the true identity of a woman's character. I have never done anything wrong, but I am a player. I have heard that often the veil of virginity is torn even in sports. If this had happened, my husband would have considered me characterless. How to do the exam?

- A young woman (Modasa)

* You are unnecessarily afraid. Get married. In today's fast-paced life there is no such measure of character.

What are the most common of the problems related to penis erection?

- A young man (Vadodara)

* A man sometimes cannot stimulate his penis even without fatigue, stress or any obvious reason and he loses his self-confidence when he worries about this failure. The second time he wants to stimulate the penis, he fears success. This feeling also causes a disturbance in his work.

His condition is similar to that of a man who, once failing an exam, is unable to regain confidence even if he sits for the exam with full preparation. One Failure This Fear of Another Failure Turned Into Sexual Failure This failure renders the erection action powerless.

Does Alcohol Consume Impotence? If yes, why?

- One Male (Rajkot)

* Alcohol consumption can cause impotence. There are two types of impotence. Most impotence starts with drinking too much alcohol. In most cases, alcohol causes a man to fail to erect his penis and this success does not leave him chasing. This failure is repeated due to alcohol. This is because the fear of failure becomes ingrained in him even when he is not drunk and in addition the man becomes so skeptical about his efficiency that he does not get any success. It can be effectively treated. Men who are addicted to alcohol. She may have permanent impotence, as she may have some defects in her body that her liver is so damaged that it cannot be repaired. Such a drunken man loses his libido and his penis cannot stand up well. Such impotence becomes difficult to treat.

I am a 21 year old virgin. Over the last few days I have had white stripes on my buttocks and waist that pregnant women have. My marriage is a little later. So I'm worried that my future husband won't make sense of it. Can this be cured with medicine or cream?

- A young woman (Bharuch)

* You worry unnecessarily. It is normal to have such straps. This is called 'Staya Adrapka' and it is caused by stretching of the muscles. So this is possible not only during pregnancy, but also in conditions like adolescence and obesity and in a disease called 'Cushing's syndrome'. This is not to say that this is a sign of motherhood. You can be sure.

It has been a year since our marriage, but I am still deprived of the pleasure of intercourse, because whenever the husband is ready for intercourse, his penis automatically loosens immediately after being hardened for a few moments. In this case, he says, his weakness is from childhood. Are they impotent? Is it possible to treat it? He has nightmares every 10,11 days. Please provide appropriate guidance.

- A Woman (Ahmedabad)

* Your husband is not impotent, but he has a disease called ejaculation. In many cases there is a psychological reason behind such a disease. Anxiety, lack of sexual experience, lack of harmony in relationships are the common causes. In the case of your husband, it seems that he has lost confidence. As a result, they have become obsessed with sex.

These problems are not difficult to treat. Try to get the anxiety out of their minds. Awaken their confidence and create the right environment, it is possible that this problem will gradually go away automatically, otherwise consult a skilled psychiatrist.

One thing to keep in mind is not to get bogged down in big advertisements and so-called sexologists. That will only aggravate the problem. There is a simple problem and it is not difficult to cure.

-Anita