Confusion.

- I am an 18 year old girl, I love a young man. My family does not allow us to live with them. I want to know if I can be independent without someone's protection?

I am a 16 year old girl, I love a young man. We explained a lot, yet my family wouldn't let us stay. I want to know if I can be independent without someone's protection?

- A young woman (Rajkot)

* You have not explained why people in your household do not like your lover.

If a virgin girl is separated from her family and lives with a young man, society will point the finger at her character. Society will never accept that relationship. If you can't live without that young man and you think that young man is worthy, marry him.

I am a married woman working in a government organization, my husband is an alcoholic and has no character. She endured torture for 10 years. I can't stand it anymore, so I came to Pierre with one of my 3 year old daughters. Now I want to bring the things given to me from the dowry and the things I bought myself from my father-in-law as well as the expenses of my daughter's maintenance from there. Will I be happy if I divorce my husband and marry someone else?

- One Wife (Godhra)

* After divorcing your husband, you will get your belongings from your father-in-law and support for your daughter, but how can you tell if you will be happy or not by remarrying after divorce?

If you get a divorce by mutual consent, you will have to find someone who will prove to be a suitable husband and will gladly accept your daughter. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person.

I am studying in the last year of BA in a college in Mumbai. When I went to a village on holiday two years ago, I was attracted to one of my Messianic brothers, and we crossed all limits.

He wants to marry me, but it will ruin my career, my parents' reputation. I don't want to marry her, but the physical attraction is so strong that it doesn't let me be different from her.

- A young woman (Mumbai)

* Neither are you ignorant nor is this adolescent dementia.

You are educated and mature. You don't like such immorality. The only good thing is to stay away from the young man who is in control of himself. If you can't control your sexual desires, get married. You can continue your studies even after marriage.

I want to know how much it hurts when a man has sex for the first time. Does the skin on the front of the penis rupture and bleed out and thus lose its virginity or does it cause some pain on the red part of the front of the penis?

- One Male (Jamnagar)

* It is not necessary that everyone break their skin or bleed when they have sex for the first time. People who can move their skin back and forth over the red part do not have any problems during intercourse and do not bleed on the first night. Let me show you an easy solution. Stimulate the woman during intercourse and then insert one finger into the vagina. The woman will feel more arousal than the inside out. If it looks like it has been stimulated properly, insert two fingers together and move back and forth. This will increase his arousal. Then give your senses into the hands of the woman, because she knows exactly where to insert the penis. Proper arousal and proper lubrication in a woman's vagina does not cause any discomfort during intercourse.

I am a 30 year old bachelor, I have had testicular problems for the last ten years. One of my testicles is down and the other is stuck up on the left side. It often gives me trouble. My penis doesn’t even stand up straight. The semen is also sometimes watery and sometimes thick. Could this cause any problems in my marriage?

- A young man (Surat)

* As a rule, one of the two testicles is above and the other is slightly below. In ninety percent of cases the left is lower i.e. the left testicle is lower. Only ten percent have the opposite situation. Even if you don't have one of the two testicles, your sex life or the ability to have children will be normal. There will be no hindrance. Only by understanding God has man been given two very important things of the body. If a crack ruptures, it gives another job, even if one ear becomes deaf, it can be heard with the other ear, if one kidney goes bad, the other kidney can lift the weight of the whole body. The same is true of the testicles. You do not need to panic.

The senses are all a bit crooked. It is said that even Kamadeva's senses were not at ninety degrees. If the penis is slightly left or right, it does not cause any problem in vaginal penetration. If you want to go inside the door, the important thing is to go inside, then go a little left or right or go with your head held high or low, it doesn't matter.

It doesn't matter if the semen is thin or thick, white or yellow, more or less. Whether the semen is thin or thick depends on many factors, such as the period between two ejaculations, the intensity of your libido.

- Anita