Dialogue is not a bargain, a bargain, an agreement


- Landscape-Subhash Bhatt

This also has two important words: controversy and dialogue. Human life is static through dialogue and wavering through controversy. Studies show that a person speaks an average of 15,000 words in a single day. Well, 15 new words are discovered every day. Thus every day billions of words are exchanged on this earth but it is not all dialogue. Poo Gandhiji's conversations with Muhammad Ali Jinnah and the poet Tagore differ from Socrates-Plato and Trump-Putin.

Dialogue is not a bargain, a bargain, an agreement. Dialogue is not domination, command or discipline. Dialogue is not just an activity of our intellect or psyche. But when the mind-intellect is at rest, the heart speaks and the heart listens. There is no distance between the two and only the distance speaks for itself. The dialogue is not about the tension between the fox and the dog. There is no chess of words or thoughts. It is not a matter of telling others that you have heard, but a willingness to listen, understand and accept others as a whole. There is no room for maneuver, tactics or tactics. Ultimately, there is a rhythm or dialogue to it.

Word or language is also the basis of dialogue, it is also an obstacle, it is also a recess, it is also a veil. Just as a bridge over a river connects two villages, it also breaks it in a subtle sense. The use of the word in shaping the word is our specialty. The word or idea during the dialogue should not become an impenetrable room so that others cannot be seen or heard. It is to inhabit others, not to measure. Because dialogue or relationship is a delicate plant that cannot withstand the downpour of words and ideas. So dialogue is sometimes formed through silence or even through action. Words are needed in the exchange of ideas but not in the expression of price. Words or dialogues are not necessary to express awe, joy and welcome towards life. There is a difference between a transaction of one hundred rupees and a transaction of a smile.

Two people cannot form a dialogue from two peaks. Yes, a dialogue can be created by holding Ekmak's hand parallel to a ladder. To communicate, one has to descend from the hill of knowledge and position, power and wealth, identity and ego, ideals and rights. Before entering the dialogue room, the burden of memory, prejudices, assumptions, ideals, etc. is also to be removed. Dialogue is our freedom and choice, not our compulsion or inevitability. In real dialogue, both are ready to change. Both have honesty and transparency. Thus life is a whole opportunity to welcome and accept others. Just, once this Faiz Ahmed Faiz (maybe) suggests doing so

Some frivolous quarrels end this way,

Where there is no mistake, Maine joins hands.

And then that's all I have to say - this coast is a star. Well, let's find a third shore and start a love-life-dialogue .....

Not soliloquy and monologue but dialogue applause on the stage of life.

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