'Living by Quality'


Harshi Bhardwaj was receiving education with Drona and Prince Drupada in the sage's ashram. A close friendship was formed between the two. Drona was poor from the beginning. Drupada ascended the throne after the death of his son Ashvatthama by giving him a cup of milk. Then friend Bhave Drona went to Drupada to beg for help. But then Drupada turned his mouth. - I am a king and you are a beggar Brahmin! Our equalizer is no longer possible. So go back from my court as you have come. Drona felt this insult pierce like a thorn. The effect of this bitter knee of insult was terrible. In time, Gurudron defeated Drupada through the Pandavas as Gurudakshina and took him prisoner. Not only that, he also got half of his state. Now the poison of this insult was spreading more and more. Eventually Dronacharya was killed by Drupada's son Dhushtadyumna.

Neither of them could forget the words of insult! "If you utter insults, you will also hear them," TM Plotts said. If you say insulting words to someone, you will hear the same insulting words. When someone gets angry, insults, hates or tries to dominate us, how does it affect our mind immediately? The response to that effect depends on our relationship, our future, or our next generation of heirs. There is clear mention in Bhagwat 10-7-8. (Janmatryanugunit Vair Sanrabdhya Dhiya) In the conscience of the babysitter, the feeling of revenge towards Krishna was growing from three consecutive births. The reaction is connected to the past.

The definite behavior of the reactions of the humiliated person we have seen in society in stories or movies. Let it happen.Tit for tat. Don't give up. Such stupid thoughts, which come naturally, make us behave strangely. We respond without pausing for a second. To be like that is the price of war. Attack is price. There is a price of hostility. Doing so will not arouse countermeasures. Feelings will not wake up, love will not wake up. Life will not improve. Peace will not come. Anger will come if life is not expected! But every time we react instead of feeling ... love will be blunted, sensation will be zero, relationships will be broken, eyes will stop recognizing the dignity of relationships. Relationships take the form of one thing in the life of the person reacting. A living relationship becomes something like furniture.

There is nothing left in the relationship except the accounts of Deti. Where does love wake up when living consciousness becomes a thing? Emotion introduces us to intuition. Controls our desires. It is said in the Bhagavad-gita: It is important to recognize the good in us before we act in a way that does not suit our personality.

In the eyes of the British, Gandhi was known as 'Coolie Barrister'. He prepared to travel from Durban to Pretoria to prepare a case. Abdullah Sethe picked up a first class ticket for him. A bureaucrat ordered Gandhi to go to the last compartment, calling the station in Meritsburg a descent. Gandhi's Manya. There was a brawl. Questions answered. A sepoy came. He forcibly grabbed Gandhi's hand, pushed him down from the train. Luggage thrown on the platform. Train departed now? Gandhi went to the waiting room without touching the luggage. Done

Thought of the insult. (Gandhiji's autobiography, pages 2-5) 'Either I have to fight for my rights or keep going back after enduring such humiliation. 'To become a Mahatma. This was a test of personality development. Preserving self-esteem is the first condition for personality development. Introducing oneself to the good, auspicious part of one's personality and convincing others of that part is a sign of an awakened state of intuition. Gandhi spent the whole night in the waiting room. Made a long telegram of complaint to the general manager in the morning. The answer came. The manager recommended the station master and sent Gandhi on the night train to Ba-Ijjat first class.

This was not a reaction but a response. There was a ba-law reaction. Anger against hatred increases the degree. Harassment increases. Caution should be exercised by watching a hurricane named Wrath from a distance. Should live by maintaining quality. One should live with self-respect. A whirlwind of insults disperses a single spark of peace in a tree of happiness. Don't let any evil happen to us. We should avoid such misgivings and express our feelings. If we live by maintaining ourselves, our sleeping breath will continue to run regularly as per our wishes without any pressure.

- Surendra Shah

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