Make Mom a Best Friend

It is said that daughters are always the darlings of the father. That is absolutely true. It may be that Freud's theory of attraction to the opposite sex works, but it is also true that daughters talk to their mothers whenever they have a question, no matter how close they are to their father. In fact, it is said that when a daughter reaches the mother's shoulder or above, she becomes her friend. A companion who always gives true guidance. Sometimes it happens that the mother adopts a strict attitude, but it can never be harmful. In families where the mother is not friendly with the daughters, the daughters go around looking for support from outside friends to talk and solve problems.

Mary Makdante, author of the book 'My Mother My Friend', says that every girl needs a moment in her life when she is her best friend. For many girls that moment comes after their marriage. For some, the moment comes when it is the first time, and for many, the moment comes when they are mentally or physically disturbed.

In response to whether women can be good friends, social worker and secretary of women's congress Dr. Jaya Shukla says, "Madikari can be good friends with each other, as they are women and can understand each other's feelings and moods well. My daughter considers me her friend. I treat him like a best friend. "

In this regard, a woman lecturer Dr. Shefalika says, "After a certain age, females become intimate friends. But the mother has to take the initiative for this, so that the daughter can tell her all her thoughts without hesitation. I have always been friendly with my daughters. She was so attached to me that she would tell me a lot about studies, from where a boy would annoy her. "

Inspired by the TV serial 'Kasauti Zindagi Ki' i.e. during an interview with Shweta Tiwari, it was asked who is your inspiration? So his direct answer was, "My mother." Yes, it is one hundred percent true that the inspiration of any daughter is her mother. Only mother's closeness, love and true guidance can help any young lady to climb different ladders of success.

In this regard, housewife Vijaya says, "Ever since I was in sixth grade, my mother used to treat me like a friend. I didn't feel well until I told him all day. Many boys offered me but I never paid attention to their proposals, because my mom always explained to me that you should never hesitate when talking to a boy and take care that no one takes advantage of you. I have never been drawn in the wrong direction by my mother's advice. "

Sociologists also believe that for any girl, her mother is the most faithful and close friend in the world. Yes, it is true that in some cases the mother becomes the daughter's worst enemy.

This happens almost during adolescence, as the physical and mental changes that take place during that time cause the daughter to feel annoyed, angry and insecure. In such a situation, the mother teases him without understanding his feelings, which leads to a dispute between the two, but still the daughter comes to the mother first to solve her problems and show her happiness. The two have a close relationship and are friends.

Why the relationship becomes stronger

* Understand each other's feelings.

* Keep the home environment light. Explain to your daughter with love instead of always teasing her.

* Be friendly with the daughter. Create an image of yourself in his mind so that he can share his personal stories with you.

* Read books and watch movies based on feminist relationships.

* Go for walks and shopping with each other.

* Support the daughter. Give him the right to choose his favorite carrier.