Confusion.

- I am an 18 year old FYBcom student. I love a married man who is not satisfied with his marriage. I want to give him all the happiness that he is deprived of.

I am married for 21 years. Despite being married for two years, she has not yet become a mother. I'm not menstruating at all. No matter how many tests have been done, there is no disease in the body. When I told my husband everything before marriage, he was ready to get married, but now we are both missing children. What to do?

- A young woman (Surat)

* Any woman who has reached your age does not menstruate, it is not considered a normal condition. You have not told us what tests have been done so far, but if your health is considered normal in those tests, it is clear that you have not been properly tested. It is better for you to see a gynecologist so that he can diagnose why you are not menstruating yet. However your problem is very serious and there seems to be no possibility of solving it. In such a case, it would be better if you discuss with your husband and adopt a child.

Menstruation started when I was 16 years old. I am 18 years old now, but I have been menstruating for four days. Can't this time be reduced in any way? I have heard that excessive menstruation leads to better health and less discharge leads to weight gain. Is this true? If so, can you suggest a way to improve your health as well as reduce your discharge time?

Ek Kanya: (Ahmedabad)

* It seems from your letter that you are completely unaware of the practical aspect of this normal process of the female body. Menstruation usually lasts for three to five days. This is a natural process and cannot be voluntarily increased or decreased. Probably a factor as to why they're doing so poorly.

It is not the case that short menstruation leads to weight gain or overweight improves health. If there is excessive discharge, the amount of blood in the body may decrease. Don't worry unnecessarily as your menstrual cycle is regular and menstruation is normal.

I am 17 years old. When I was 12-13 years old, one of my cousins ​​used to sleep with me and make strange noises. At first I didn't say anything for a few days, but then I started sleeping separately. Now I am worried about my future. Doesn't this have an effect on my marriage?

- A bride (Veraval)

* Do not worry in vain for the future. This incident of the past will not affect your marital life.

I am married for 3 years. I have been married for four years. My husband is not capable of procreation, yet he expects children from me anyway. I have thought of having a relationship with one of my married lovers and giving birth to a child, but I am afraid that somewhere it will not say no. I look at my husband and lover in the same light. Should I talk to her about this?

- A woman (Petlad)

* One of the reasons behind the success of the method of artificial insemination which is prevalent nowadays is that the name and address of the sperm donor is kept private. If you want to have a relationship with an acquaintance, it is adultery. This will lead to unnecessary conflict. Maybe your husband doesn't even accept the baby. Instead, adopt a suitable child.

I am a 12 year old FYB com student. I love a married man who is not satisfied with his marriage. I want to give him all the happiness that he is deprived of. So he is the same age as my father. Now the problem is that my family will never be ready for this. I don’t want to shock my parents as well as leave the man who loves me the most. Don't understand what to do?

- A bride (Upleta)

* The study needs to focus on leaving emotionality. Thinking of marrying that man is ridiculous as well as a legal as well as a social crime. As soon as possible, stop relaxing, this is for the good of both of you.

I am married for 20 years. It's been three months since my marriage. My husband is a normal person of 3 years, while my son-in-law has an attractive personality and is younger than my husband. I don't like my husband at all. Can I have another good husband?

- One Wife (Anand)

* You have become a victim of inferiority complex by comparing your husband with other men. Now you have to live with them, remember that. Also, the husband is not the only thing in the market that if you don't like one, come and buy another. It would be foolish to think that if you can't find your favorite partner the first time, you can find another one.

- Anita