Confusion.

- I am 19 years old. I like my uncle's boy very much. He is two years older than me. He takes physical relaxation with me when I take him home. But lately I have come to know that he is also in love with another young lady. I can't even forget it.

I am 6 years married, I am six months pregnant. My husband was in love with a young woman before marriage. They could not get married due to social reasons. Now my husband has expressed his desire to have sex with her. I'm under so much stress I don't know what to do. Request appropriate advice.

- A young woman (Rajkot)

- The good side of your problem is that your husband does not lie to you and commit adultery behind the scenes. Appreciate his feelings and ask him to think about the future of the family as well as the children. Try to get your husband on the right path and try to provide him mental support. For the health of the unborn child, you need to keep a happy mind and believe that your husband's behavior will change after the birth of the child.

I am an educated woman. I have been married for 15 years. I also have two children. My problem is that my husband is in a relationship with another woman and I have a discussion about this. My in-laws are not even willing to listen to me. Sometimes it feels like committing suicide. Please suggest appropriate remedy.

- A Woman (Kalol)

- A simple solution to your problem is not possible. I present some options though. Accept this situation for the sake of peace at home and the future of the children or try to calmly explain to the husband that a job is necessary for the upbringing of the children as well as your peace of mind. The ultimate solution is to break away from your husband and become self-reliant and think of a bright future for your children. Also, do not discuss your problem with a third party and give up the idea of ​​suicide. You are not guilty and there is no other cowardly act like suicide.

My man is very intelligent. He likes to discuss politics as well as historical events. But my hobbies are different. I am more interested in topics like fashion, beauty, social events. I can't participate in the discussion because I'm not interested in history or politics. As if that weren't enough he kept telling me that his ex-girlfriend could discuss these topics with him. I am very sad to hear this. Please help me.

- A bride (Karamsad)

- It's good that his ex-girlfriend was able to discuss his favorite topic with a friend. But it will require something more important. In which they could not get a vote and this caused their relationship to break up. Discussing these topics with the person sitting next to you at the dinner table is fine but discussing this topic with the lover is dull. I therefore advise you to try to explain and divert his attention to another subject. If you find it incomprehensible, introduce your understanding through other things.

I am 18 years old. I like my uncle's boy very much. He is two years older than me. He takes physical relaxation with me when I take him home. I also like this behavior of his and I don’t resist it. Once in a while we also had a physical relationship. But lately I have come to know that he is also in love with another young lady. I can't even forget it. I don't understand what to do now. Please give me the right advice.

- A young woman (Mahemdavad)

- You are too young. It is natural to be attracted to young people at this age. This cannot be spent in love and it seems from your talk that your cousin wants to have a relationship with both of you and from this you can realize his feelings.

And from a social point of view, the relationship between cousins ​​is not preferred by the society. In addition, from a medical point of view, many problems may arise in the future. It is up to you to decide what to do next.

I am a working unmarried young lady, I am in love with a married man in my office. The man is preparing to divorce his wife. He loves me but wants to get married according to the wishes of his parents. I am very saddened by his decision. Please show the right way.

- A young woman (Mumbai)

- The problem arises only because of the love of a married man. You are so lucky in this case that your lover has declared his will. Now it is up to you to forget it and live a contented life by marrying another young man or to continue the love affair with this problem and be sad. Needless to say which of these two decisions are the best. Just a hint to a sensible person.

- Anita