'Sit at home, recognize Sakar Brahm! Believe in God! '

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- September 19: Wife Appreciation Day

- 'Wife Appreciation Day' celebrated on September 19 is an opportunity to say 'thank you' to your wife

Love-Anger-Pampering-Anger-Lifelong Friend-Punching bag to quell resentment-Head-crying pillow-World's best chef-Having the strength to give up one's identity and all hobbies in one fell swoop ... Anyone to describe all these characteristics The only word is wife. Even if a man has physical strength like Bahubali, he needs a woman's warmth for 'mental oxygen' at every stage of life. The man continues to receive this unceasing source of warmth from his mother in childhood and from his wife when he reaches adulthood. The motive behind talking about a life partner-half-brother-in-law is that the third Sunday in September is celebrated as 'Wife Appreciation Day'.

Some things become a part of our lives in such a way that we start taking it as 'taken for granted'. The same is true of the marital relationship. The 'Wife Appreciation Day' celebrated on September 14 is an opportunity to say 'thank you' to your wife. The gist of John Gray's well-known book, "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus," concludes the marriage, "No, you can't live with them, no, you can't live without them!" Science has reached from the moon to the bottom of the earth today but psychology has not yet fully understood the equation of marital relationship. Yes, one thing is for sure, marriage is built on the four pillars of love-respect-faith-understanding.

Unfortunately, in the eyes of most men, a wife is a source of 'fulfillment of one's desires'. One wife is expected to have 'Bhojneshu Mata, Karneshu Dasi, Karyeshu Mantri, Shayaneshu Rambha ...'. But unfortunately no such criteria have been set for a man. These conditions are centuries old. In the Mahabharata, Yudhir did not even bother to ask his wife Draupadi when she was playing juggling.

Avinash Vyas has written in hurtful words that, 'Sitaji defeated Ravana in the first Ashoka forest in Tamthi. What a feat he did in killing Marela, let us plunder the victory ... '

In the context of our country, a wife is born as soon as the saptapadi round is completed at the altar of marriage. In this new birth his identity is new and in most cases he has to give up his old hobby as well. Even if a wife is not a Vakag Lady, her 'duty' time starts from early morning. In addition to this, in addition to home-husband-children, he is also expected to complete every social transaction properly.

In many cases, after the death of the husband, the wife does not even know where the bank account is. Of course, now is the time for a wife to teach her husband to become a widower. So that when the wife goes out for a long time or bids farewell in old age, she does not have to beg for a cup of tea from her son or daughter. Many husbands depend on their wives for everything from toothpaste to towels. In this situation, when the wife goes out for a few days, she misses her love less and service more.

When the physical attraction between husband and wife ends, love begins like a hundred touches of gold. 'Can be taken.

If you don't believe in God, if you don't hope for some fruit from it, then you atheists! Sit at home, recognize the real Brahma! Believe in God! Way Annapurna Jag-janni, maya hai, unko apnao! Way Shiva, Bhavani, Chandi hai, do your devotion, eat some fear! Now Krishnachandra or Din Bite, Radha or Din Badhti Ke Hain! You get up before him, make tea as soon as you get up. Do not open the door suddenly or at the waist. Choose or work with them, identify their interests. Understand the signal on his eyebrows, if he climbs, it will not be good. When he talks to his friends, it is better to listen. You can count electricity or poles on the rocks alone. You understand, they don't know the Defense Act, when did they sit? Way to the Government of India, not to Satyagraha. At six o'clock or so, their curfew is lifted. Bas jara-si hui chuk ki jat se hi odnans ban jata hai. Way to start a war without an ultimatum, consider him your Hitler, be a fickle dictator, believe your wife is God! '

- Poet Gopal Prasad Vyas