Forget about Shah Rukh, our flop show as guardians too

- What kind of fun will Shah Rukh Khan have when his son grows up - Stop criticizing him when the interview has gone viral ... Look at our face in the mirror

- Vividha-Bhaven Kutchi

- The increasing number of divorce cases is due to parental upbringing and rude advice given daily on mobiles after the marriage of children.

- Gutkha padikas and whiskey pegs sit and share with parents and children.

- The arrogance of middle class parents ઃ Our children have never been on a bus or a train

Shah Rukh Khan's TV interview with Simi Garewal when he was just three years old went viral, answering a question about Shah Rukh Khan's son's upbringing, saying that he would allow his son to do things that I did not do in my youth. Could. I will tell her that you become a 'womanizer' who hangs out with a lot of girls. You can have sex with them. You can take drugs, starting with cigarettes and alcohol. ' Three years ago today, when drug metro culture was not so prevalent in India, there were so many jokes on social media about how advanced Shah Rukh Khan was in his ideas on child rearing.

Shah Rukh Khan's views on child rearing counselors, psychiatrists as well as vigilant parents and their aftermath seem to have become a case study. Only if I do the way they want to see me will they feel proud of me like the son of a 'Reish', 'King' or 'King'. Aryan Khan may not have consciously adapted his lifestyle to satisfy his father Shah Rukh Khan's wishes, but the children continue the legacy of the way their mothers and fathers behave in their homes, families and society, not just acquaintances but strangers. Even the body language of the children looks like that of the parents.

A mature and ideal child is one who respects his parents but can observe that I can never pay my parents but I will not allow their habit, behavior, outlook, nature and vices to enter my life. Dad shouldn't be hated but I don't want my dad to sit with a bottle of liquor every day. Not only sound education but his alertness and dedication too are most required. Despite their fitness and addiction, most addicts cite the example of a lifetime that says, "Look, I've been smoking and drinking since I was 20, but I'm still fitter than a non-addict like you today."

Our most serious mistake in valuing life is that we associate all achievement or life success with life. In fact, children, ask your family members how painful and aimless their lives have become because of you. How much they lost because they joined you. What you contributed by being born as a special man. Dad goes to the leaf shop regularly to pick up his young child for gutkha padika, puts his father in his mouth with a couple of fennel and coriander lentils and over the years the house loses its splendor and such legacy continues. Today there are millions of families in the country where both father and son Shares. All these guardians don't speak in the interview like Shah Rukh Khan, they just do what Shah Rukh wanted. Assuming that life and fitness are satisfactory despite the addiction, my life is like that of an addict's father. It is necessary to make a resolution not to spend.

We cannot blame our dad for his drug addiction because he did not have it in his youth. Good results can be achieved if parents engage in motivational dialogue with their children from an early age, make them aware of the fears of society and explain the importance of companionship.

No matter how busy you are, the child should not feel that you do not want to listen to him. You don't care

Shah Rukh Khan is very busy in shooting and to show his children that he is a superstar and the king of the hearts and minds of Indians, if the dialogue is cut off, one has to be prepared to suffer the opposite effect. Aryan Khan had wanted to talk to his father Shah Rukh Khan for several days. He may have been instructed to be disciplined and disciplined from his childhood that he would not even give a 'Miss Call' directly to Shah Rukh Khan. No, I can't talk to him right now. ' With the support of Shah Rukh Khan, we have touched on the issue of raising parents and children today. Successful and busy people from different fields like Shah Rukh Khan suffer from the severity of gravity to the extent that they do not even have time for their wives and children. Arrives at the club from the office and arrives home at night. The person in the house pretends that he is a VIP and lives a life that pretends to be a VIP.

The mother, along with the other offspring, dismounts her offspring as a racehorse and injects the offspring with the adrenal glands. The ultimate goal is to be the center of jealousy of her friends, kitty party and close relatives. Even if there is nothing special in life, the child should be the winner. '

By targeting thousands of children in such a limited family or caste, the parents cut off the wings of the children's career, skills and talents. In today's society, the children of small centers, economically and socially backward families are also immersed in competitive fields as they are not given low targets like pampering, facilities and hypocritical upbringing like upper middle or wealthy parents and dancing in the jungle. Struggle, positivity and 'survival of the fittest' have become the lower middle class.

Shah Rukh Khan told Simi Garewal in an interview that he was ready to give his son a leeway. That phase he lost. At that time he could not even afford a cold drink to quench his thirst. Girlfriend also comes to such a strict. He admits that he was shy and did not look good. He personally considered the so-called Kutevo a pleasure of life which he did not enjoy in his youth. Even if his son was having fun, he meant in an interview two and a half decades ago that his son did not become an alcoholic or a drug addict. Trapping girls, cheating or having sex with dishonesty. Shah Rukh Khan may want to say that he will have a 'liberal' attitude towards his children. I don't mind if someone takes a drink or takes a puff. As a father, Shah Rukh Khan said, "You enjoy the material pleasures of life that I could not do."

Now the bitter truth. A large number of our parents, in their love of parenting with Ladkod, inherit their children's habits, character, career and marital life-destroying parenting and suggestions. Such parents, who are still barely in the middle class, brag about their family and society, saying, 'We were so poor that we only had lentils at home once a week. Wearing tire shoes. Walking five kilometers to and from school. Sitting under the village street lights and studying. Now let us not let our children have such a bitter struggle. We have a car, we have also given a vehicle to the children. Not just eating at home on Sundays. Go shopping, party with friends. Just eat, drink, sleep till late and live with strength. We have become soft and very tired. '

Children with such upbringing cannot make a career and do not have the qualities of struggle, hard work or endurance. Parents proudly say, 'Our children have not even traveled by bus or train. "Our daughter is now on the train for the first time in twenty years," said one upper-middle-class parent. He didn't see anything in the journey except by plane. Our struggle was that we spent decades in CT and ST buses.

In the same way, it is not the spouse but their parents who are responsible for the increasing number of divorce cases. The way they have been raised, the pressure to maintain even after marriage is created on their darling daughter or son by talking on mobile phone for hours twice a day. The bottom line is that 'we made a lot of noise. You didn't make such a habit. We kept pressing, but you kill the fluff. We get up at six o'clock in the morning and blow the stove. You wake up peacefully at nine or ten o'clock. You endured your father's death and spent your life in the service of widowhood, but you will not have to do all such glory. ' Now, even in the name of property, quarrels and suicides are on the rise.

In the same way, instead of advising a darling son to give his wife a lot of love, travel, happiness and self-respect, the pressure is created to keep a close eye on whether the pampered child has been brought up by keeping the son's head on the phone. If he didn't raise his head much, he wouldn't appreciate it much. Eating only home-made food will ruin your health. Not shopping to some extent. Save. We have made you big by tying bandages on your stomach. Pay attention to us too.

Look at the stupidity of infatuated and passionate parents. They instruct their children not to adopt the same values ​​and rites that they passed from the poor to the upper middle class or rich and raised the name with prestige in the family as well as in the society.

Instead of inculcating the rites of conjugal life with being a truly noble, divine and exemplary human being, the parents continue to infuse discrimination and heavy negativity in the minds of truly loving husbands and wives. It would be a great social service if parents would stay away from interfering with the way their children live their lives on a daily basis. Mobile phones are a major contributor to the growing number of divorce cases.

Like Shah Rukh Khan, most parents express the same desire for their children in terms of ladcode and say, 'You should suffer what we could not. You should not struggle like us.'

This is how the lives of the new generation are ruined.