Confusion.

- I am 32 years old. My husband is 35 years old. But we haven't had full sex yet. The main problem is that we have intercourse for 20-30 minutes after vaginal penetration when their senses are stimulated.

Question: I am a traveling salesman. I travel a lot on bicycles, motorcycles. There is an imbalance between my two testicles. Is there no problem?

One Male (Vadodara)

Ans: It does not take more than three minutes to test the testicles manually every month. The best time is after bathing in warm water. At that time the skin of the testicles is the most loose. (1) Check both testicles simultaneously. (2) Use both hands when checking the testicles. (2) Keep your fingers in the back of the testicles and your thumbs in front. (2) Rotate the testicles with both fingers and toes. If you are completely normal, the testicles will feel smooth and feel like a sponge, but if there is a lump in the front or side of the testicles, you should consult a doctor immediately.

Question: What should I do if my spouse refuses to wear a condom?

A young lady (botad)

Answer: Remember, you have the right to insist. Sexual intercourse is usually consensual. You can explain to her about the possible consequences, including pregnancy and AIDS. People who do not use contraceptives experience negative attitudes or confusion about sexually transmitted diseases or are not responsible for their own or your health. An understanding person will consider your need if you explain the possible consequences. If you do not understand, consider the consequences and make the right decision.

Question: I am 21 years old. My problem is that my chest looks like a girl. Please provide guidance on what I should do to address this issue.

A young man (priest)

Answer: This problem is called gynecomastia. This condition can often be caused by changes in the body's hormones during adolescence.

Wait six to twelve months, see a plastic surgeon if your problem doesn't go away automatically. A plastic surgeon can make an incision around your nipple to remove this fat very easily and you can get back to normal. After the operation, you may not even realize that the operation took place at this place.

Question: I am a 9 year old girl. My husband is 3 years old. We've been married for three and a half years, but we haven't had sex yet. Little did I know when I got married that my husband had a lot of bad habits. They use cannabis, opium, marijuana and other narcotics. When they try to have sex, they have a desire, sometimes the senses are aroused, sometimes they are not aroused at all. The main problem is that when their senses are aroused, we have intercourse for 20-30 minutes after vaginal penetration. Even if he and I get tired, ejaculation doesn't happen. I want a baby. What should be done?

A young woman (Bharuch)

Answer: Your problem is confusing. Some people have a problem like yours in which there is desire, sensation is stimulated, vaginal penetration is also done properly, but ejaculation does not take place. In our medical language such a problem is called retarded ejaculation.

In your case, your husband is addicted to marijuana, marijuana, opium, etc., and because of its side effects, ejaculation may not happen as often.

If you both meet a good sexologist, he or she will examine your history and get a sample of semen, either through sex therapy or with the help of a vibrator and, if necessary, with the help of electro-ejaculation. If the semen sample is normal then there will be benefit in the process of childbirth.

- Anita