You are as hard as Mindhal, and I am a gentle nadachadi ... You go and sit in Senthi, and I hit the eyelid ...

- Spectrometer-Jay Vasavada

- Winter Wedding Season

A Sathwaro kinship

Marg Majiaro two people

Ankhaldi's lamps ray lamps

Lighted lights

Tahuka Ray Tahuka of Vansaldi

Coral Corals

An unexpected identity

A blink of a moment

I don't know

It feels like love

The magical hue of the rainbow,

What's up, what's up?

A beating Rudia

A blink of an eye

How about the company of dreams

The whole sky pink,

Walk in the streets of Gulal

What a right, what a left!

There is a fungus

Shravan is a spark

A Sathwaro kinship,

Marg majiyaro be janno ...

Venibhai Purohit's poem which is especially remembered during this marriage period is written on a rose petal by dipping the stem of Mo Rapinch in honey. (The heartfelt poet with the opium of your eyes!) Corona has not yet re-emerged in India like in the West and restrictions are relaxed. People who have been bored for a long time are a little overwhelmed. Rejecting the mask has been a thong to salt the mouth. Whether it's a closed AC hall with perfume on hand instead of a sanitizer for an adventure called a wedding or an open party plot room zooming adventure.

Pretty much all philosophy happens. No matter how many jokes are formed. New generations bring new trends. Technology is dazzling. The news of the divorce of a couple who seem to be lonely and seemingly reliable, despite the news of their divorce, is overwhelming.

Because, man or woman - man is the only one (or alone) to come and go in the world. If you use the word Gita, 'Vyaktamadhya', it flows between the two banks of birth and death, it is its 'living'. And so someone somehow finds that company, finds the company. Finds the expression. There is an innate hunger to leave small and big impressions in the past and in one's own world. As the word 'species' is used in the Vedas, it has to pass on its genes to the next generation, which is a game of nature. For which spouse and family yearn.

And human beings alone are just as incomplete. The phenomenon called love is the miracle of fulfilling one's imperfection. What is not there is attraction. That is why a man who is biologically normal likes the cohabitation of a woman and a woman likes the cohabitation of a man. Like beauty. Like fantasy. The marriage is being tried in the world as a system to complete the imperfection on a permanent basis. There is no better and more ubiquitous alternative than democracy. Yes, over time the old laws have lost their legitimacy and the marital system has changed and new ones will come.

A decade and a half ago, Kankotri / Wedding card was written in a way that is not different from the typical text of colors or designs, today it has become all over the happy families. What we call 'marriage', but strict adherence to English words, is a wedding - (marriage is an event, marriage, aka marriage, marriage - marriage is also accepted, it has the same meaning. If the weekend discotheque is not available, there is and will be a full-fledged party with a family license. Modern young people who are naturally educated in rituals are not as interested in food and fun, dance and decoration. This means that the original event of Sato Hastamalap or Fera is not only close to the family but also music, mehndi, ring ceremony, games, reception, etc. were not present in the wedding ceremony in India. ) Many such things we have adopted with the 'festive' mood, setting aside the WhatsAppia frogs of Sanatan culture.

It also lost some fun, like firecrackers. The fun of spinning with the release of frustration. Some elders talk nostalgic. But this is what happened. Change is the same nature, stability is the same distortion! So changes happen over time. King Henry VIII of England has become 'the lonely madman of Roop Poonam' in order to marry his favorite Ann Boleyn. The marriage ended with the beheading of her brother, who was suspected of being the new queen, but the affair resulted in the long-reigning daughter of Queen Elizabeth I, the founder of the British Empire centuries ago, from a religious vow of 'Till Death Who Us Part'. Divorce and remarriage became commonplace among the liberated people, who were also reformed in the British Raj, and gradually gained independence from the treaty, especially women.

And now the days of female power have come. World over is change. The more women study, the more courageous they become, the more active they are in public life, the less favorable the laws are due to the mainstream media. If you don't like it, you have to accept it. The old bonds are still in place, but will change as the generation changes.

That is to say, even if the regime, which is being manipulated by the Pakistani Taliban, threatens to dismantle Nyaya Nirmalya by political calculation, the true eternal tradition of India has been that of 'Question and Self Correction'. Those who cling tightly to the Mars journey of Saptapadi ignore the fact that this is clearly the advocacy of Sajode. The masculine patriarchal mentality is consumed by the maid forever, whether it is a woman, mother or wife. Nurse, Cook, Domestic Maid, Secretary All Rolled In One! Unfortunately, the entire illiterate population, which is not readable at all, has increased exponentially in our 'austere' country. That is to say, in earlier literature like 'Kanyadan', whether it was Hindi or not, Gujarat seems to be making a fuss over the fact that thinkers and creators from generations before in Gujarat openly discussed it.

The girl is not going to 'see', she is going to meet him. Now, on a matrimonial site, if a funny or more open-minded man writes viral stereotypes about the bride's chest, waist, legs, etc. in his marriage advertisement, then everyone starts calling him a pervert. But what is it that has been printing ads that demand high, white, thin atra etra 'features' for years? Those fathers openly revealed their desire to be hidden inside. The demand to choose a woman of a certain religious inclination seems more strange than the natural feeling of form! Have you ever read of Job's fascinating descriptions of love in ancient stories, such as those heard through a special picture or poem? The girl has to select furniture or gadgets for 'going to see'. You can know the nature or dislike by chatting!

Anyway, so the word Kanyadan, which is used very naturally in India, whose predominant culture is Hindu, seems to be very natural as it has lost its connotation or meaning. As Gujarati gender / masculine / feminine for gender seems quite innocent natural. Parents do not understand their darling. But the word 'donation' mostly means something. Instead of Kanyadan, Kanyaman plays games with an idea that if it is followed, it should be welcomed as much as the right belongs to the user of the word. The far-sighted sages of Hinduism have never abandoned water-tight precepts like Islam. Over time, they have been allowed to live as they please. Earlier cows, women etc. were also considered as 'wealth'. A king had many queens. It is now a constitutionally run modern country. So each other's choice. Someone may say Kanyadan, or someone may understand the changing times and call Rudy a colorful Kanyaman instead of imitating Saudiveda!

But after wearing the Mangalsutra, where 'Intimacy' is opposed by ox-intellects like sticks falling from above in the monastery, let Vatsyayan go, the question is how to preserve the heritage of Yajnavalkya Maitrai or Agasya Lopamudra!

Originally a hardcore allergy to erotic juices to primitive herdsmen and conservatives. When husband and wife become intimate, their boundaries are violated. If this goes on, in the name of reunion of the abha, the marriage will be made only platonic and the honeymoon will also be banned by deploying Taporitola! In the name of protection of culture, the people at the ministerial level get tired of wiring absurd regressive thinking! I can't even think that the festival of Milan is a marriage, seeing the body, the body, the body, the body, the body like Abha's abode. For this, one has to read humorous literature in Sanskrit instead of the teachings of the mythical doos / donuts. Who wants to read here except the readymade gossip messages?

What a decent, graceful, progressive old word 'Hastamelap' which is used more in the rest of Gujarat! Originally the word is - Panigrahan. Water means hand. There is no gender bias here. There is no mail-centric mentality in which the groom rides the horse. If Queen Lakshmibai of Jhansi can ride a horse in the battlefield of India even after becoming a widow in 19th, then why not become a horseman in her wedding while taking medals in today's modern Olympics and illuminating the splendor of the country? Reader Comrade Vinod The daughter of 'Jatayu' has learned horse riding and has done 'Vadhughodi' (a word made for a joke!). Anyway, it's about handshake. There is no such division between a man's hand and a woman's hand. Hand in hand with each other. Husband and wife's hands. Spouse's hand. Male-female hands. Couples handshake. Favorite proclamation of the subtle beauty of equality that has been going on since ancient times! The rest of Dharar Kanyadan is old. Wake up by 'reviving' it and let the girls make the decision of love and marriage! Respect her choice and wish! Instead, the matter of honor of the nobility reaches to the honor killing. Because the bride is considered property here, whose 'ownership' is known to be passed from father to husband!

The basic thing is partnership. Just as the bride leaves the pier, so the bridegroom relinquishes the freedom he has left behind. The two come together and build a new 'home' in which the past has no place. I love the present. Whether the previous bonds are for relationships or habits - slowly the knees are bent, but a new home is formed. The building stays the same - Companions find happiness in each other's hands rather than adjusting, and learn to cope with adversity. Having two eyes or two ears does not come together, but the anathematic site or sound is heard only once, when the 'tuning' is fine, then the marriage life shines! There is no need to change the other person. It is to develop a shared space that understands and respects each other's choices.

So, instead of 'objectifying' a woman like Kanyadan (yes, this is the real thing, not a hot photoshoot of her own free will, from which Prosperity gets popularity) instead of the word 'Sahadharmacharini'. Sahiyara belongs to Satwara, as well as to the space of Solitude. The balance of these two is sweet symbiosis. Well written by German love poet Rainer Maria Rilke

"Marriage does not mean that all the walls are broken down and two strangers suddenly create a common-joint space. On the contrary, in a healthy marriage, one partner chooses the other as his 'favorite solitary keeper'! And that is possible only when both have deep trust in each other! Intimate love is also intimate faith. It is not possible for two people to merge into one and become one! That is to say, wherever it appears, with the consent of each other or with the consent of each other, the freedom of one or the other of the two may have become a part of the process of instinctive development - to know for sure!

But once the distance is realized, it is possible to distance the infinite distance between two very close individuals, and after accepting and loving each other's separate existence, the wonderful 'side by side' 'Living Together' begins to flourish. If the two spouses learn to love this space between each other, then there is a beautiful possibility that both of them will make each other complete forever and just as we live and shine in the vast infinite space, they can make each other's secluded sky fun and mutual. ! ''

Wow! What a Thought. Respecting each other's choices for a beautiful companion connection is fine, instead of constantly tying each other up, the common elements of coexistence such as food, entertainment (movie-music-fun joke whatever), sleep etc. are left to their own devices. . There is a little bit of secrecy in the distance and the attraction lasts a long time. The rest of the close-up pictures are blurred!

I wish the dowry could be arranged in the mind like a closet to live together according to the changing times amidst the innumerable purchases in the name of Kariyavar!

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Happy coexistence means in which age is missing, but words are not missing!