A signal to end an unpleasant relationship

- Realizing it's time to reevaluate a relationship if it feels suffocating to continue.

- In the process of getting to know each other, it is natural that you both have differences on some issues. But when such matters are secondary and do not affect the relationship, it is advisable to settle.

Many people cannot decide whether to continue or end a relationship. There is no exact formula for this, but there needs to be a signal that suggests to you that being in this relationship is a waste of your energy and time. In the recent tragic incident like Shraddha Walkar we have seen that Shraddha tried many times to get out of this relationship but maybe she could not take the decision at the right time. Your partner's behavior gives you an indication of where the relationship is headed now. However, if you try to stick to such a relationship, you will find nothing but disappointment. But how to identify such a sign?

The first sign is dishonesty. If your partner is constantly lying to you or hiding information from you, it may indicate that they don't trust you or that they don't value your relationship enough to be honest with you.

Another sign is lack of support. If your partner is constantly criticizing you or humiliating you instead of encouraging you, it means that he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Also, being jealous of you or trying to control you is a warning bell that your partner lacks confidence and feels insecure about you. If you see any such sign, then understand that it is time to move on from this relationship.

However, if you are still undecided, there are some other clues that can help you make this decision.

He has no time for you

The important thing in any relationship is to have time for each other. If the partner is always busy with his work or has other duties and you are always waiting, this is not a good sign. Your association should be with a partner who values ​​your time as much as you value theirs.

Frequently canceling plans

If your partner is constantly canceling or changing plans, it means he has no interest in spending time with you. Such a partner always says that he is ready to support you but cancels the plan at the last minute. This is a sign that he doesn't care about you. It is essential that your partner is reliable and keeps his promises to you.

Be self-centered

A healthy relationship depends on balanced interactions. If your partner only believes in taking you then there is no need to waste time on him. Your partner should be interested in listening to you, spending time with you. If you're the only one trying to get her attention, then it's time to end the relationship.

Never listening to you

If your partner seems uninterested in hearing anything you have to say, it is a sign that you are not important to them and they are not fully committed to the relationship. Communication is essential to any lasting relationship. If your partner is not interested in talking to you, it means that you are less important to him. Lack of communication is the main reason behind the breakdown of any relationship.

Negative attitude of spouse

If your partner's attitude is always negative and they are always complaining or criticizing people, it shows their dissatisfaction. They are not satisfied with their life. Before you lose this relationship, you can take constructive steps to bring positivity to your partner.

Not giving importance to your dreams

If your partner doesn't understand your dreams, dreams and aspirations, doesn't give importance to them, doesn't support them in their realization, then understand that he doesn't care about you or what is important to you. A good partner will surely help you to realize your dreams, achieve your goals, support you, be your support.

Not giving you space

If your partner is possessive of you, wants to control you and makes you feel insecure, try to dig deep into the issue first. Boundaries are important in any relationship and if he is constantly crossing these boundaries it means he has no respect for you or your wishes.

Your values ​​are different

In the process of getting to know each other, it is natural that you two will often disagree on some issue. But when such matters are secondary and do not affect the relationship, it is appropriate to settle. But when there is a disagreement about something that is very important to you or a disagreement about your basic values ​​and ideals, assume that now there are frictions and disputes and arguments. will increase. At such times instead of wasting time in disputes, a meaningful relationship should be developed.

Can't forget the past

It is said that it is a good sign if a man or woman comes clean about their previous relationship. But sometimes it happens when your partner reveals his past just to get your feelings or to gain trust or as a comparison, it's time to get sober. Does your partner constantly complain about the pain and heartbreak they got from their previous partner? Is he still interested in an ex-mate's social media updates? Does his name come up frequently in your daily conversations? Pay close attention to such signs. If your partner is still interested in his ex, you better rethink your relationship.

The conversation starts with you

Both partners need to be interested in getting to know each other for a relationship to happen and grow. It's okay to try harder in the beginning, but back off from such a one-sided relationship to avoid heartbreak if your partner isn't ready to reveal anything about himself after months. If your current relationship shows any of the above signs, it is better to get out of the relationship before it becomes more complicated and awkward. Granted, such tough decisions are not easy to make, but such warning signs cannot be ignored. If your partner is unwilling to change his attitude and mindset, the best option for both of you is to end the relationship and move on.

- Umesh Thakkar